Cody Updates by Mom

On a regular basis I am humbled by others and events that happen.  Today is one of those days.  As I was headed to radiation this morning I got a text.  I pulled into the parking lot at Regions and read “At the opening ceremonies of the 3 day. Love you!”  It was accompanied by a photo of the back of a shirt that said “I walk because I can’t walk away”.  Of course, immediate emotion and tears.  I am so blessed to call Trish not only my friend but my family.  It started me thinking about the walk and the people who are walking or helping those along the walk.  It is a truly amazing and beautiful thing to see so much support for the cure of this horrible disease. This last Mother’s Day, my other sister in law and a co-worker walked the MOA walk in support of breast cancer research and awareness.  Again, I am humbled at others sending me messages that they are supporting me in this way.

Cancer touches so many people in their life.  Whether it is their own journey or having to watch and support someone else’s, it is around us all.  Watching all of the ALS videos I am reminded at how many other people suffer from ailments that they cannot control.  Right now I cannot hide that I have cancer unless I wear a wig but so many other horrible things that kill us on the inside are silent on the outside.  We do not see the daily struggle but it is there.  I pray that God takes your hand during the really tough days and guides you to some comfort.  May you see and feel hope for an amazing future.

We all see the world through a filter of our own journey.  My filter has changed and actually has a pink tint to it.  I look differently at the world and I have found more moments where I just stand back and watch.  Watch the world spin and the days ticking by.

Radiation may be kicking my butt right now but I am getting through.  I am a survivor and have already won my bigger battle against cancer.  I have a lot of battle scars both inside and out that I will use as a testament to my win over all of this.  My physical scars will be a reminder that even though I may feel weak, with everyone’s support I have found the strength to rise above.

Today I would like to say congrats to all of the survivors and their supporters walking in the 3 day.  I would also like to say congrats to my team member that is getting married today.  I am so happy for your special day.  I would also say congrats to my friend who just brought a beautiful baby girl into this world.  These wonderful happy moments are so precious!

As we get ready for the busiest weekend of the summer I wanted to say thank you to all of you that have been there.  Your support is the core of my strength.  I will be at the fair on Sunday to watch Cody compete in the robotics tournament.  Stop by and see us in the education building.

Maybe say a little traveling prayer for us as we hit Duluth tonight, Devil’s Lake, ND on Saturday and the fair on Sunday.  Oy Vey, over 14 hours in the car.  I know I will be praying that none of us have stomach issues that would cause problems being stuck in a car that long. 🙂  Have a great weekend!!!

Caring Bridge Comments

Love and prayers..from mom|Aug 22, 2014 10:09am
Thank you Melanie for your courage and your testimony. You are now and always will be beautiful daughter. My thanks to my daughter-in-law for the walks she makes and the times she works for cancer research. she is awesome. I do appreciate all that walkers do and what is done for those with cancer. I will pray that your trip to Duluth is a good one with no sickness. I am so proud of all my family. God bless you all.
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